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Sextortion scams targeting teens

Organised criminal networks pose as peers on Instagram and Snapchat to coerce teenagers into sharing intimate images — then threaten to send them to family and friends.
Updated July 2026
Most relevant: ages 13–17
First reported 2023
8.1
SEVERITY
out of 10
What is sextortion?

Sextortion targeting teens is online blackmail where criminals — often in organised networks — pose as attractive peers and build rapport before persuading the victim to share intimate images.

Once an image is obtained, they immediately switch to threats: pay money or produce more images, or the content will be shared with the victim's contacts, school, or parents. AI-generated deepfakes are increasingly used — criminals fabricate images without the victim ever sharing anything.

The FBI reports sextortion is up 300% since 2021, with cases targeting boys aged 14–17 rising fastest. NCMEC received over 186,000 sextortion-related reports in 2025, a record high. In Malaysia, PDRM's cyber unit reported a 40% year-on-year increase in cases in 2025. Victims are told that paying will stop the abuse — it will not. Shame and fear of exposure is the weapon used against them.

Who is most at risk?
Boys 14–17
Fastest growing victim group
Instagram users
Most common first contact
Snapchat users
Frequently exploited platform
Gamers
Discord & gaming chat targets
Warning signs to watch for
Sudden extreme anxiety or distress about their phone or social media
Deleting apps or accounts without explanation
Receiving unexpected money requests or transfers
Unusual withdrawal from friends, family, or school
References to someone threatening them online
Unexplained charges or requests for gift cards
Changes in sleep, appetite, or mood following online activity
Receiving threats involving fabricated or AI-manipulated images, even if your child never shared any real images
Do not pay. Do not delete messages — they are evidence. In Malaysia, report to PDRM Cyber999 (cyber999.com.my) or MCMC (aduan.skmm.gov.my). Internationally: CEOP (UK: ceop.police.uk) or NCMEC CyberTipline (cybertipline.org). If images are at risk of spread, contact IWF (report.iwf.org.uk) for rapid takedown. Preserving evidence gives law enforcement the best chance of action.
What you can do — step by step
1
Talk about it before it happens
Have a calm, non-judgmental conversation about sextortion with your teenager. Make clear they are never at fault and you will not punish them — your response determines whether they tell you.
2
Do not pay — it never stops the abuse
Paying almost always escalates demands. The images are already in their hands. Paying only confirms you will pay again. Stop all contact with the perpetrator.
3
Report to the platform and authorities immediately
Report the account on the platform where contact was made. In Malaysia, report to PDRM Cyber999 (cyber999.com.my) or MCMC (aduan.skmm.gov.my or 1800 888 030). In the UK use CEOP. In the US use NCMEC CyberTipline (cybertipline.org). Preserve all messages as evidence before reporting.
4
Report images to the IWF
The Internet Watch Foundation (report.iwf.org.uk) arranges rapid removal of intimate images from the internet — including AI-generated content. Free and confidential.
5
Seek emotional support
Contact your GP, school counsellor, or Childline (UK: 0800 1111) or Crisis Text Line (US: text HOME to 741741). Sextortion victims are not at fault and support is available.
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REPORTED CASES
6,820
+40% year on year (MY, 2025)
AGE BREAKDOWN
Ages 13–1531%
Ages 16–1752%
Ages 18+17%
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